Elate

For serious relationships for less swiping, less ghosting, and fewer timewasters

Elate is a free London dating app for singles looking for serious relationships, not hookups! With unique features you won't find in apps like Hinge, Bumble or Tinder:

THREE CHATS AT A TIME

Chat with just three matches at a time for better conversations and less ghosting. The rest wait in your match queue until you both have space.

ANTI-GHOSTING NOTIFICATIONS

Get a message when your match ends a chat to speak to someone new, so you're not left wondering and waiting to see if they reply.

QUALITY OVER QUANTITY

Up to 10 especially recommended singles daily, curated for relationship compatibility so you spend less time swiping and more time building relationships.

LESS SUPERFICIAL

Our unique compatibility feed helps us find you deeper relationships based on personality, values, interests AND looks.

ZERO-TOLERANCE ON BAD BEHAVIOUR

We have a zero-tolerance, one-strike and you’re out policy for any type of harassment reported. No exceptions!

AI MATCHMAKER & DATING COACH

Meet Dara, your personal dating assistant! Dara can help you with everything from improving your profile on any dating app, coming up with date ideas, or even your rizz with help for your message openers and replies!

Don’t hinge your dating and relationship success on apps that rely on endless options instead of curated recommendations.

Use an app with fewer timewasters or superficial matches that never say anything.

Download Elate (elatedate), made to make dating and relationships better.